propose things
Instead of saying " let's do sth", be specific - let's watch this show etc. Don't give her the mental load of deciding what to do
involvement
In our relationships with others, we cannot just be present. We need to be involved. Being present is like being a Scarecrow in the field, useless in preventing the birds from gnawing at the fruits. We need to be involved, actively, protecting and assuring those around us that we are not only just present, but active to help, to walk, to give.
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