how to connect the head and heart

To think of a small way or thing to agree with for both heart and head

- it's a step in the right direction to cure that problem

E.g. I hate my colleague

- can think of a small thing of that colleague quality which u like

- it can also be a step that may not even be related

E.g. drink a sweet drink 

- sth you like when you try to train to like your colleague 

Eg. Soccer players also train arms even though they use their legs

- about holistic training