misunderstanding in family

misunderstanding

From the Beltrame Quattrocchi family

 «Opposing opinions, heated discussions, and even friction did not lack. Maria was not easily swayed, and arguing with her to change her mind was not easy. In those moments, Luigi may have felt distressed and nervous, while Maria seemed aggressive. But this never lasted long and prompt requests for forgiveness brought back serenity. They succeeded in implementing fraternal correction, welcoming the thoughts of the other with openness and humility»28. Maria herself wrote: «One’s own perfection [...] is achieved through friction and contrast, because only in this way can the roughness be smoothed out, metal be purified of its debris, and the intrinsic value of each person be brought to light [...]. Holiness consists of one’s personal and bitter labor»29. «I know of souls who, had they not had that friction which never lacks in those who tend to the very high, they would never have risen»

From Sanctae Familiae